Tuesday, April 10, 2012

How Tough is Saying "Sorry" ?

We do say "sorry" many times in our life isn't it? do we really say that every time we commit mistakes or is it that easy to say sorry at our faults? many people find it really difficult to say sorry even if they know that they are on the wrong side. Especially if the opposite person is of opposite sex or if the opposite person is younger than them, then they will not say this powerful word called "sorry" as it will hurt their ego.

Sorry is indeed a powerful word as it has real power to solve many of life's problems as smile does. Being a human being, making mistakes is human nature and we should all understand that first and saying sorry is a must when we commit mistakes and letting the person know that we have done a mistake as we have realized that. It is the indirect way of telling them we don't repeat the mistake again. If we have done any mistake we have to agree to that and learn from that mistake and apologize the opposite person for committing that mistake and then move forward as it will also put the opposite person in more comfortable position with you which will also help you in near future.

Sometimes when the opposite person is not well or if something bad has happened in their life, we have to say sorry to them which means we are there with them in their darkest hours. It means a lot to them when they hear that you are there with them in such times. Sometimes if you are in trouble for doing terrible mistake and still not agreeing to say sorry to the opposite person, you might also land in deep trouble as the will get angry and can go to any extent to take revenge with you for hurting them. Same way, if you say sorry to them soon after committing any serious mistake, they may calm down before they realize it and you indirectly will be safer also.

Sorry may be a small word but very powerful word and don't hesitate in using it often if you are really on the wrong side and also use it for when someone in bad state and tell them you are there with them as a moral support in their tough times

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