Youngsters these days are getting more and more into love marriages and that too against ther parents wishes most of the time. Are they really against arranged marriages or do they feel uncomfortable getting settled with an unknown partner for lifetime? when it comes to deciding on life partner or settling down in life, both arranged marriages and even love marriage will have their own advantages and also disadvantages. Though love marriages have increased all over the world now as parents are getting lesser say in these matters and decision of youngsters are dominating now which sometimes backfires and other times will work for good.
To decide on marriage is a very difficult task as it will be a major step in your lifetime to settle down with a partner for whole life. Your partner should be able to understand you better, trust you more and also love you for what you are more than anything else to lead a comfortable and happy married life. There might be many doubts creeping in your mind when it comes to decide on your partner for life which is not at all easy for sure. Some of them take it easy and leave it to their parents to select a partner for them and others try to select a partner on their own by falling in love with someone or by taking help from their friends to search for a proper partner. Most of the youngsters do fall into the beauty of the partner while trying to select their partner and while others do search for inner good qualities in a partner which is actually good.
Unless you are matured enough to settle down in life, you should never consider marriage as most of the time youngsters who are not matured enough will not be in a position to face life's challenges after getting married. This maturity of facing the world will come only after a certain age when you are confident of many things and this is the right time to settle down. For male, this right age will be after he crosses 27 years and in females it will be only after 23 years. If you really love any girl and stick to that even at your marriage age, ten take a decision consulting with your parents as they form a vital part in your life. If they are not convinced on your decision, take some more time to convince them about the qualities your partner possess. Time changes everything and even your parents will be able to come to decide on your choice. Knowing a girl
before marriage will be far better most of the times in my view as you will already be having an understanding with her which is more important and the second most important factor is getting your parents blessings and permission to go ahead
You can also view this here:
http://expertscolumn.com/content/deciding-arranged-marriage-and-love-marriage
http://www.wikinut.com/deciding-on-arranged-marriage-and-love-marriage/3g4k1yam/1xekbshs/
To decide on marriage is a very difficult task as it will be a major step in your lifetime to settle down with a partner for whole life. Your partner should be able to understand you better, trust you more and also love you for what you are more than anything else to lead a comfortable and happy married life. There might be many doubts creeping in your mind when it comes to decide on your partner for life which is not at all easy for sure. Some of them take it easy and leave it to their parents to select a partner for them and others try to select a partner on their own by falling in love with someone or by taking help from their friends to search for a proper partner. Most of the youngsters do fall into the beauty of the partner while trying to select their partner and while others do search for inner good qualities in a partner which is actually good.
Unless you are matured enough to settle down in life, you should never consider marriage as most of the time youngsters who are not matured enough will not be in a position to face life's challenges after getting married. This maturity of facing the world will come only after a certain age when you are confident of many things and this is the right time to settle down. For male, this right age will be after he crosses 27 years and in females it will be only after 23 years. If you really love any girl and stick to that even at your marriage age, ten take a decision consulting with your parents as they form a vital part in your life. If they are not convinced on your decision, take some more time to convince them about the qualities your partner possess. Time changes everything and even your parents will be able to come to decide on your choice. Knowing a girl
before marriage will be far better most of the times in my view as you will already be having an understanding with her which is more important and the second most important factor is getting your parents blessings and permission to go ahead
You can also view this here:
http://expertscolumn.com/content/deciding-arranged-marriage-and-love-marriage
http://www.wikinut.com/deciding-on-arranged-marriage-and-love-marriage/3g4k1yam/1xekbshs/
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