As a kid,i used to fear a lot of certain things like moving out in night time, watching horror movies etc. But as i grow older, these fear started vanishing as i was forced to watch many horror movies, walking in late nights etc which was forcefully done by my parents which resulted in erasing of all such fear factors which was effecting me very much then. Luckily i had my parents who too genuine interest in erasing our all these fear of me as they were with me watching and guiding all my actions.But there are also many young kids who are not given much attention by their parents and these fear factors in many of the kids have also started carrying as they grow older. The growing stage of kids is the most crucial part which many parents do neglect these days because of their busy work schedule
There was a guy in my college who was my childhood friend and was fearing of getting into water or even running fast ! though we both were young then, this fear was quite normal at that young age. But later on even when his parents could not take much interest in their kids development, this fear continued as also he was a very reserved person and has less number of friends with him. There were not much friends with him to discuss things like these as i was also not around him all the time. Though i did find it strange to see him fear for small things like getting into water etc even at this grown up age ,i did try to eliminate these stuff from him but didn't succeed at all. So it is all because of parents who neglect their children at their growing stage which is really bad.
When children grow up with their own freedom without any fear, they will be smarter later on. But for this to happen parents should take the major responsibility for building up the better future for their children. Even if parents are busy and time cannot be taken out, something has to be done by them so that they also spend valuable time with their children which is very very important in their growing up stage. Any habit started in their childhood may grow stronger as they grow up and if these habits are bad , then it will be worse later on and if these are good then it will be good for them later on. Friends also contribute a major part in their grow up. Right set of good friends does make a lot of difference
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There was a guy in my college who was my childhood friend and was fearing of getting into water or even running fast ! though we both were young then, this fear was quite normal at that young age. But later on even when his parents could not take much interest in their kids development, this fear continued as also he was a very reserved person and has less number of friends with him. There were not much friends with him to discuss things like these as i was also not around him all the time. Though i did find it strange to see him fear for small things like getting into water etc even at this grown up age ,i did try to eliminate these stuff from him but didn't succeed at all. So it is all because of parents who neglect their children at their growing stage which is really bad.
When children grow up with their own freedom without any fear, they will be smarter later on. But for this to happen parents should take the major responsibility for building up the better future for their children. Even if parents are busy and time cannot be taken out, something has to be done by them so that they also spend valuable time with their children which is very very important in their growing up stage. Any habit started in their childhood may grow stronger as they grow up and if these habits are bad , then it will be worse later on and if these are good then it will be good for them later on. Friends also contribute a major part in their grow up. Right set of good friends does make a lot of difference
You can also view this here:
http://expertscolumn.com/content/fear-factor-will-hamper-activities
www.wikinut.com/fear-factor-will-hamper-activities/3g0ddlek/yhp_tina/
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